Who is monica dating now
I’ve crossed paths with other older men, too, in the past year or so: some I merely corresponded with; some I met in person.I’ve discovered how world-weary and bitter they can be, desperate to offload their emotional baggage on any female who will listen.Mature women nowadays are all too aware of the importance of taking care of the face, hair and body, and of dressing well in order to hold the interest of the opposite sex. The balance of power has shifted and this seems to confuse a lot of 55-plus men, even the successful ones. Those cute, fit young guys I encountered during my wild year of online dating are for ever etched in my mind.Why don’t older men think the same rules apply to them? Older men don’t seem to know how to conduct themselves around women. They don’t know whether they should pay for your dinner, or whether it’s OK to compliment you on your legs. They have made it tricky for me to find older chaps attractive, and believe me, I have tried. I saw him for dinner a few times until it became apparent that he wanted to take things to the next level: the bedroom.At 65, my date (I’ll call him Jerry) was a few years older than me.
Especially not when I still feel vibrant and youthful enough to attract the hot young Pups of this world? ’ sneered one anonymous troll, while others gleefully informed me that my actions meant I faced a sad and lonely old age.But, trapped in his tiny living room, I began to feel stifled by his tales of woe.Another older potential suitor was 63-year-old Martin.I mean, designer stubble can look sexy on a cute 26-year-old, but it makes a 62-year-old look like a dishevelled pensioner.My pet hate is the man in a trainspotter-style anorak, with a pot belly boldly protruding over his trouser belt. You wouldn’t get blokes like that in France or Italy. But that does not wash in a modern society filled with strong, independent women.